watched valentine's day today with lijia, joel and walter:) the movie critics and reviewers can shove the bad reviews right back where they came from, because it is an AWESOME movie:)


to teach the lesson that many of us already know but often forget, or lose sight of- that to love someone means to love everything about the person, be it likable or unlikeable, and to treasure the person. if everyone understood this then perhaps the divorce rates might go down, because people think about that before they agree to a marriage proposal, or ask for a divorce. when you say your vows and agree to stand by the person, be it in sickness or in health, for poorer or for richer, you should mean every single word. when you promise to love to hold and to treasure, its a lifetime of commitment, not your whim and fancy.

love is not about gazing into each other's eyes, but about looking together in the same direction:)

i don't know why im writing so much about this now, but it is a fact i want to point out because SO MANY PEOPLE DON'T SEE IT:(